I need to end my participation in this post because I am quite simply, exhausted. I’m a trans scientist, but I’m also autistic, disabled, and hold other marginalized identities, and I don’t think some of the folks here know just how awful and exhausting it is to constantly defend our human rights, against words like “woke”, “identity politics”, “not researched enough”, or “it’s science against science” when something is demonstrably false. It’s been 15 days of providing data and education in various ways on various matters.
And for the record, presenting scientific research for the more general public is neutral. Not aggressive, or emotional. I’ve been a biologist since 2008, and anyone who is used to scientific writing knows to be clear, direct, and provide well-cited literature.
It’s hard to speak up and defend your own community from within it, even with others supporting you. I’m an advocate, and my life and existence is not political or forcing anyone else to be trans or have trans children. I receive death threats multiple times a month just for existing as an openly trans person, among other quite literal dangers to my life.
I, and we, simply want to exist, and know that we have my faith community completely behind our backs, because right now, it feels to me like I might go to UU spaces that don’t welcome me or think that I’m sick, broken, a groomer, forcing my identity on everyone, or just a nuisance, and that’s pretty heartbreaking.
Trans healthcare saves lives, trans youth healthcare is safe and extremely well studied, trans support saves lives, trans equity saves lives.
I will end here with what I said the general session III.
I am a transgender, non-binary, and genderfluid UU and a biologist, and I am in full support of this beautifully crafted business resolution. We exist, and have existed in different ways across the planet as long as humans have walked the earth. We are divine, if we choose to claim that word and affirmed by science.
However, our existence is challenged daily and we are literally dying. Hate crimes, specific legislation targeting our rights, bans on live saving healthcare, and violence against our community have only been growing more and more extreme the more we fight for our right to just simply exist in the world just as we are.
In Unitarian Universalism, we proclaim and affirm as a faith tradition that we uphold the inherent worthiness and dignity of every person. And that’s wonderful and inspiring. But at times, we must clearly and directly state WHAT and WHO we are upholding and affirming to the world and people around us.
We trans, non-binary, intersex, two-spirit, hijra, muxe, and other people with cultural genders and ways of being not defined by our imperialist false binary, we simply ask of you, the member congregations of the UUA, to rise up for our human rights openly like we inherently do for yours.
Stand up for our human rights just like inherently stand up for yours.